My husband Jay and I had talked about the possibility of having a family, but it was always like a fluffy thought “out there”, never real, just a cloud passing by. Jay knew about my endometriosis, and I told him that it might be hard for me to get pregnant. Of course, at that time of early-relationship-wonder, we had no idea what that would mean. But we agreed that we would take what life gave us. Together. After so many years of going it solo, this brought a surprising and h